Can you ever be a truly independent thinker?
(text from a The Conversation article I wrote, which was published last week)
‘It’s important to me that I make my own decisions, but I often wonder how much they are actually influenced by cultural and societal norms, by advertising, the media and those around me. We all feel the need to fit in, but does this prevent us from making decisions for ourselves? In short, can I ever be a truly free thinker?’ Richard, Yorkshire.
There’s good news and bad news on this one. In his poem Invictus, William Ernest Henley wrote: “It matters not how strait the gate, How charged with punishments the scroll, I am the master of my fate, I am the captain of my soul.”
While being the lone “captain of your soul” is a reassuring idea, the truth is rather more nuanced. The reality is that we are social beings driven by a profound need to fit in – and as a consequence, we are all hugely influenced by cultural norms.
But to get to the specifics of your question, advertising, at least, may not influence you as much as you imagine. Both advertisers and the critics of advertising like us to think that ads can make us dance any way they want, especially now everything is digital and personalised ad targeting is possible in a way it never was before.
In reality, there is no precise science of advertising. Most new products fail, despite the advertising they receive. And even when sales go up, nobody is exactly sure of the role advertising played. As the marketing pioneer John Wanamaker said:
Half the money I spend on advertising is wasted; the trouble is I don’t know which half.
You’d expect advertisers to exaggerate the effectiveness of advertising, and scholars of advertising have typically made more modest claims. Even these, though, may be overestimates. Recent studies have claimed that both online and offline, the methods commonly used to study advertising effectiveness vastly exaggerate the power of advertising to change our beliefs and behaviour.
This has led some to claim that not just half, but perhaps nearly all advertising money is wasted, at least online.
There are similar results outside of commerce. One review of field experiments in political campaigning argued “the best estimate of the effects of campaign contact and advertising on Americans’ candidates choices in general elections is zero”. Zero!
In other words, although we like to blame the media for how people vote, it is surprisingly hard to find solid evidence of when and how people are swayed by the media. One professor of political science, Kenneth Newton, went so far as to claim “It’s Not the Media, Stupid”.
But although advertising is a weak force, and although hard evidence on how the media influences specific choices is elusive, every one of us is undoubtedly influenced by the culture in which we live.
Fashions exist both for superficial things, such as buying clothes and opting for a particular hairstyle, but also for more profound behaviour like murder and even suicide. Indeed, we all borrow so much from those we grow up around, and those around us now, that it seems impossible to put a clear line between our individual selves and the selves society forges for us.
Two examples: I don’t have any facial tattoos, and I don’t want any. If I wanted a facial tattoo my family would think I’d gone mad. But if I was born in some cultures, where these tattoos were common and conveyed high status, such as traditional Māori culture, people would think I was unusual if I didn’t want facial tattoos.
Similarly, if I had been born a Viking, I can assume that my highest ambition would have been to die in battle, axe or sword in hand. In their belief system, after all, that was surest way to Valhalla and a glorious afterlife. Instead, I am a liberal academic whose highest ambition is to die peacefully in bed, a long way away from any bloodshed. Promises of Valhalla have no influence over me.
Ultimately, I’d argue that all of our desires are patterned by the culture we happen to be born in.
But it gets worse. Even if we could somehow free ourselves from cultural expectations, other forces impinge on our thoughts. Your genes can affect your personality and so they must also, indirectly, have a knock-on effect on your beliefs.
Sigmund Freud, the founder of psychoanalysis, famously talked about the influence of parents and upbringing on behaviour, and he probably wasn’t 100% wrong. Even just psychologically, how can you ever think freely, separate from the twin influences of prior experience and other people?
From this perspective, all of our behaviours and our desires are profoundly influenced by outside forces. But does this mean they aren’t also our own?
The answer to this dilemma, I think, is not to free yourself from outside influences. This is impossible. Instead, you should see yourself and your ideas as the intersection of all the forces that come to play on you.
Some of these are shared – like our culture – and some are unique to you – your unique experience, your unique history and biology. Being a free thinker, from this perspective, means working out exactly what makes sense to you, from where you are now.
You can’t – and shouldn’t – ignore outside influences, but the good news is that these influences are not some kind of overwhelming force. All the evidence is compatible with the view that each of us, choice by choice, belief by belief, can make reasonable decisions for ourselves, not unshackled from the influences of others and the past, but free to chart our own unique paths forward into the future.
After all, the captain of a ship doesn’t sail while ignoring the wind – sometimes they go with it, sometimes against it, but they always account for it. Similarly, we think and make our choices in the context of all our circumstances, not by ignoring them.
Inputs…
BOOK: Stop Being Reasonable: Six stories of how we really change our minds by Eleanor Gordon-Smith (2019)
Eleanor Gordon-Smith tells compelling stories of personal transformation, smuggling in deep conceptual points from the philosophy of rationality. The writing is so engaging, and the tone so light, that you could almost miss the importance of what Gordon-Smith is saying, and the profound grounding she obviously has in the scholarly work on the topic. Contra the title, my take away is not so much that we should stop being reasonable, as we can improve our idea of what "being reasonable" means, taking into account more fully the contradictions and limitations of rationality.
The first chapter, tells the story of her conversations with cat callers on the streets of Sydney, dialogues she'd initiate with a direct "What were you hoping for just then?". I can't do justice to her description of trying to get out the confused motives of these men, or her struggle to get them to engage with a women's perspective on cat calling. Her insistence that women don't enjoy cat calling, or only laugh because they are afraid encounters with men will violently escalate, are met with incredulity, denial, or just skated over ("No no, they love it"), her arguments and experience arriving "somehow panel beaten by expectations", depriving her of a seat at the argumentative table. Gordon-Smith links the experience to Miranda Fricker's idea of "testimonial injustice":
"But the promise that debates defeat falsehoods will be in trouble if it turns out that words do not work the same way for everyone. What use is all that legislative protection of your right to speak if, when you do speak, you’re not even heard? Words are not just vessels for ideas to enter the colosseum of argument. Words are attached to people, and some people arrive in debates pre-flattened by their opponents’ expectations such that they are mistrusted before they have even spoken, or assumed unintelligent before they have made their case. What chance does rational debate have to defeat falsehoods if it is possible for the people with the right idea to mount their argument perfectly well but then, as they turn to see their words appear on the Debate Score- board, find that their words have simply disappeared?" (p36)
This idea underscores the social nature of rational discussion. Debate relies not just on a common ground of understanding between interlocutors, but in turn on shared social worlds. When social worlds are not shared, or experienced differently, the capacity for rational discussion is affected.
"Words do not work in the same way for everyone. And when words are the currency of rational debate, rational debate does not work the same way for everyone either" (p45)
Listen to the episode of This American Life on which chapter 1 of Stop Being Reasonable is based : Hollaback Girl
LINK: Steven Pinker's course on Rationality at Harvard
You can watch the lectures online (including guest lecture by Hugo Mercier on 5th March) and read the syllabus.
LINK: Horne, Z., Powell, D., & Hummel, J. (2015). A single counterexample leads to moral belief revision. Cognitive science, 39(8), 1950-1964.
Nice experiment from Zach Horne and colleagues. The basic idea is that most people express a commitment to the moral accountacy of utilitarianism (e.g. if you could save 5 people or 1 person, it is clear you save the 5). However, this support wavers when people are offered a salient counter-example (in this case, asked if it is ok to harvest the organs from one person, at the expense of their life, to save five people). As well as being an example of people being flexible in their moral reasoning, it also illustrates the power of people’s drive to be consistent. The organ harvesting vignette provokes a strong counter-utilitarian intuition, which people then use to drive a re-assessment of their previous commitment to utilitarianism. Reasonable!
Also check out Horne’s Cognition Computation and Development Lab for more recent work
LINK: SuperTuesday - a “small data” analysis
I thought it would be fun to analyse the ad spending of the candidates in the Democratic party primary, against the votes the received. It turns out that, contrary to the idea that advertising can strongly influence people, there isn’t an obvious relationship, despite Mike Bloomberg’s spend of over $500 million on ads.
And finally…
Here’s a post a friend made on facebook (yes, I have anti-vaxx friends, and some of the stuff they post about coronavirus is wild)